Tag: Zen

The Lost Art of Day Dreaming.

The Lost Art of Day Dreaming.

You might remember a time when sitting around and staring into space was a pastime. A pastime of a time past. Now young, old, women, kids, men, everyone is busy all the time. Every increment of time is filled, with work, commuting, family, entertainment. I 

Let it be.

Let it be.

The hardest thing to do is letting others be, to be themselves or versions thereof. We are all trying. Trying for something. To live as we best can, we give our best at any given moment. For others, especially family and friends, this is sometimes 

Night Watch.

Night Watch.

On overnight passages we keep watch in shifts. After dinner one of us says goodnight. The other keeps us safe and stays up with a multitude of entertainment be it listening to the waves splashing off the bow and curling along the boat, trimming sails, 

Puff???

Puff???

There goes the dream? Puff??? Have you had that happen to you that you dreamt of a life and then you lived it and it turned out nothing like you imagined? Imagination is not grounded in experience and therefore living a dream is way different 

Fear.

Fear.

Fear, the plaque of humanity, ruled us for centuries. The powers at hand controlled their subjects with fear, the individual spirit was crushed as collateral damage until democracy promised an end to this, an end to the fear to be obliterated  like this tiny crab. 

Lupe Therapy.

Lupe Therapy.

Yesterday, we hung out with Lupe. Lupe opened the one and only restaurant in Bahía San Evaristo two years ago. Cruisers, who anchor in this bay every year, encouraged this small fishing village of around a hundred souls to cater to the passing boats and 

Worth it.

Worth it.

Living in a tiny house on water, the chapped lips from the wind and the weather, the bruises from falling around the boat bouncing on waves, the nausea on the first sails out after landlubbing, are so worth it when you arrive at places like 

Nobody tells you how hard it is.

Nobody tells you how hard it is.

Getting the boat and outfitting is easy. After leaving comes the hard part. Complaining about life when you live on land is normal. Complaining as a cruiser is just not done. We are out there living the dream, complaining would be heresy. How about the 

My Kind of People.

My Kind of People.

The other day in Bahía de Los Ángeles, we were sitting around with a bunch of cruisers under Guillermo’s palapa when a landlubber from Texas joined our group. He was a young Armenian immigrant to the US close to getting his Green Card and on 

Ironing Out the Kinks.

Ironing Out the Kinks.

Most of you wonder probably how does one live on a small sailboat with a partner. And then to go cruising and to be together all day, every day. Especially on passages and at anchor the boat is all you have. You can retreat to 

Relax!

Relax!

Relax already. We worked our butts off to get ready to leave. We researched and talked to a lot of people about what we will need for sailing and cruising. We put a lot of things on the Imagine to outfit her for cruising, but 

Big Ocean. Big Sky. Small Minds.

Big Ocean. Big Sky. Small Minds.

I asked Radu the night before last, if he was ready to go again. The next leg was our third 30 hour passage and the seas were big the last times making our sails exhausting. Yes, he said, he was alright and I was too, 

Plenty of Time.

Plenty of Time.

Radu is learning how to filet a fish, a Pargo rojo (Pacific Red Snapper). We met Antonio, the sheriff of this small village, when he secured our dinghy on the beach the tide had broken loose and was about to float away. They started talking 

Happy

Happy

I asked Maria and her son Victor, our hosts at cafe in Bahía del Tortuga, how is life? “Although we live a simple life… we are happy.” Well there you have it!  A large family… a piece of land by the sea … a little 

First Night Watch. First Sail.

First Night Watch. First Sail.

Radu woke me up 15 minutes prior to arrival. It was 7 am. After our first 21 hour passage from Ensenada to St. Quintin and going overnight, it was hard to get up. Once in the cockpit, I was awed by a different world. Round 

We did it!

We did it!

We left San Diego, finally, at 6 am and crossing over into Mexican waters probably around one hour and a half later. We will check into the country with all formality in Ensenada tomorrow. The last days leading up to the departure were filled with